Hard Holidays

The same year my dad died, Mike lost his mother and nothing was normal any more. I was fighting cancer and wondering if I would see another holiday. Death is a part of life but it is still difficult, especially, when we are creatures of habit and traditions. Missing those who have died is not a lack of faith. We are grieving and we all grieve differently. I know where my dad is but I am human. I always say because our relationship was so good it hurts so bad.

Many people are hurting right now and need our prayers. 1 Thessalonians 5: 11, "Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing." There are many who are experiencing their first holiday season without their loved one. Pray for them, invite them for a meal, send them a card, call them, visit them, etc to let them know you care. Not only are we to encourage others but we are to carry their burdens. Galatians 6: 2, "Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ." There are people who are hurting during the holidays who do not have family to lean on. 1 Thessalonians 5: 14, "... encourage the disheartened, help the weak, be patient with everyone."

If you are the person hurting or discouraged, reach out to someone. Studies show that serving is so good for our mind and body that it can reduce stress and depression. We are distracted from our own worries and blessed when we are a blessing to others. Who can we help carry their load? I am remembering you in prayer this Christmas season for you to feel God's comfort and peace. Hugs, my friends!